When you are reading the Holy Bible in the book of Genesis you see God creating man and put him in the garden they call Eden, later you see God adding him a woman to be his assistance in the garden they are living in. God initial masterpiece about the two to assist each other since he did not want man to be lonely. Later in the garden we see the man and the woman producing children who look the same as them and God then told them to go on and increase in number. The two going to bed with each other produce two sons which are Cain and Abel as seen in the book of Genesis. Here the essence of you getting together was to help one another, that was the first purpose of a man and woman sleeping with each other. This idea brought in by God is still practiced by many men especially Christian till this day but some see that to be difficult, and they rather prefer to give rise to young ones than just been like that without children.
Marriage is defined as the coming together of a female and male for the two to assist each other and may give birth as well. Sex is one of the reasons for marriage, and doing that gives you the chance to have babies which is the end product of sex. Others view sex as just for recreation and for procreation, just to enjoy yourself and have fun without having to procreate. This explains why some have decided to come out with several contraceptives to protect themselves from getting pregnancy and bearing children from that casual sex. Some have even come out with various forms of sex which does not involve the female’s vagina but what is called oral sex and some times anal sex. All these are there to prevent a woman from conceiving and producing children from the act.
The definition of marriage seems to be unpleasant for many, and they say if the essence of marriage was to give birth, why is it that some are married yet has no children. Those who see sex as recreation believe that sex is something you need for your survival, that when a mature man sees a mature woman, there is this great desire of the two. So, this two engages in sex to satisfy their desires and have fun also prevent any unwanted behavior from any party. Some of these people do not even see the importance of getting married since they can always get what they want in the public domain for free.
However, those who marry for procreation have a point since without that people would have come to a stop. Procreation makes sure that when the old folks are gone there are still surviving humans to continue activities on earth. Producing your children is important because then can help you do activities that you alone would have done if they were not there to assist. Sex should be focused on bearing children and for recreation as well and must not focus on only one aspect.